The Joy of Frottage
Frottage, as you probably know, derived from the French word "frotter", meaning to rub. In the sexual context, it refers to the rubbing against another person for sexual pleasure, in a clothed or semi-clothed state. Lately, though, it is best known and applied to the rubbing of two or more cocks together, preferably in an aroused state, with or without hands being used and, in many cases, ejaculation being the goal, as seen in many frottage videos where sperm gushes forth over each cock, one after another.
As anyone who has done it, the pleasure is awesome and highly erotic, both to do and watch. I remember so clearly in my younger years having "wet dreams" which resulted in my getting an erection and rubbing it against the mattress to achieve an orgasm. From there we advanced to more manual pleasuring, with and without others.
I have found that rubbing the swollen urethra when you have an erection is extremely pleasurable. The more you rub it the more it seemed to swell in anticipation of orgasm and the ejaculation of your lust.
In the mid-20th century, when homosexuality was still widely criminalized, frottage allowed men to explore their desires in public or semi-public places without risking the more obvious signs of intimacy. Its appeal lies in the tactile connection and slow, gradual build-up of pleasure through friction, often leading to heightened sexual tension. In modern times, frottage remains an intimate and sensual act for many people, offering a form of connection that is less about penetration and more about mutual pleasure through touch and closeness. It serves as a reminder of how varied and nuanced physical intimacy can be, celebrating a form of eroticism rooted in proximity, friction, and the electric sensations of the body in contact. From The Hapenis Project
Then again, if you have the privacy there's something to be said about frotting your boyfriend's crack, preanal pleasuring for sure....